Confessions of a Military Wife by Mollie Gross
"A standup comedienne, public speaker, and wife of a Marine Corps officer, Mollie explores everything about the "issued" spouse, from deployment and the stress of having a husband in a combat zone, to the realization that marriage changes when your husband returns home from war. Nothing is taboo or out-of-bounds in Confessions, including the "parties" military wives throw for themselves before hubby returns. (You'll have to read the book to find out about those!)" [Source]
Today's Military Wife by Lydia Sloan Cline A wealth of information about housing, moving, socials and protocol, living overseas, leaving the service, etc.